Relations and the changings in the here and now

There are two different patterns of the way people express, when their energies are not in balance in their self's.
The first way is that all excess energy will be taking inside him. The other way is to throwing it outward.
Both are not in the way it supposed to be. The more conscious the people are, the less suffer they have from it and the more they stay in balance. The people, who have the tendency to take the energy inside, can learn to be attentive of getting habits as suffering, nail biting or another tic. They are getting more physical symptoms or nonverbal letting now that they have pain. Or they can’t sit still without doing anything. Hyperactivity also can express now and then. The one who has the pattern to throwing it outward can be attentive to the following patterns. They can excessive openly criticizing other people. Constantly apologize with words. Still keep going about the same subject and how strange it may sounds, extreme tiredness.
These patterns are not new, but in this time they are more extreme because of the process humanity is in. Just for the opportunity for the people to learn to recognize these and to get more conscious of their self's and their patterns. It will get easier to balance these patterns and to let them finally go.

It is so important to be conscious of your own patterns, because these patterns have a major role in your relations.
The relations are also changing because of the change in the ying and the yang energy. Every relation has to deal with these changes. This can lead to closer relations, but also go to stepping out of a relation.  In any case there will be a shift. Also in relations people have to deal with it, that what isn’t constructive for them will be removed. When there is dissatisfaction in a relation for a longer time this will be more intense, and the relation will end or at least taking the steps to do this. It is important to make this choice in conscious, and not too fast.

Because every human respond to these changes, it is necessary to look if it is possible that it has to do with the current changing in his self, and that it is a projection, unconsciously, to the other. Just in this time all fear and pain is coming up that we have increased somewhere in the many lives we lived. So when you decide to consider ending a relation, making sure you be not a victim of your own process.

Whole humanity on this earth is transforming or balancing their vision about all that is.
The best you can do for this time is to try to keep your balance in every situation. This gives the most rest and make sure that you can stay close to yourself.

For the persons who are normally used to react this way by this kind of patterns, it will be the opposite. Just at these moments this people will notice that they couldn’t stop their actions, in words or in act. When they had this outbreak of energy it gives an enormous relief. Do not forget that the human is a huge control freak. Let me say it this way.

Suppose that the human is a computer. To let the computer work there are many processes needed.  When you connect new device, you have to modify this device to your computer to let them “speak” together.  Mostly

you need a driver to overcome this language barrier. If you don’t do this it may come to a conflict with another program or other connected devices. The same lookalike is now going on with humans. There is somewhere in the human an old version of a program, and this is need to be changed/replaced. The problem is that humanity has a very strong virus protection that he wills not easy turn off. In any case not before he is sure that it doesn’t harm.  In the eons of time it often has been very well that this protection was there. It protected humans for hacking or crashes of its computer.

Now humanity is going through a time, that he has to turn off this virus protection, because when he leaves it on the computer the computer will jam, and you can’t do anything with it anymore. The only option for a “normal” working computer is to turn off this virus protection, without knowing if this will solve anything.  The only thing people can build on is to believe and relay on what the computer expert says about it. That this doesn’t harm you and that it is normal that you’re computer act strange. Unfortunately there’ve been too many experts that told the human at so many different ways that he don’t know anymore which way to choose. What people have to do is to build up much more self confidence and to trust their own feelings.

I hope that I made it clear a little bit, where every human have to deal with. Humanity has to put every program that fits on a computer on his own computer. Anyway the connections been made so they are conscious that every computer is equal. The people can choose to use a program or not. He is not obligated to know all this programs in once, and don’t have to re-install programs that are already on its computer. The people only have to realize that the only difference between their computer and any other computer in the world is the way how programs are getting used or were not used at all. But this doesn’t make one computer better than the other. It is simple the way of using a program that it seems like a program is different of the other.